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I've been thinking about something that came up tangentially in the invasion discussion, but I don't think that thread is really the right place for it.

I've seen a number of writers step away from Chaos recently, or seriously consider doing so. In some cases they've told me why. Those reasons aren't all the same, and I don't think it's useful to reduce them to one issue, one group, staff, factions, invasions, or any particular person.

I'm also not interested in making this a thread about assigning blame.

What I am interested in is whether there are things we, as a community, can actually do better.

Chaos has been around for a very long time. People are obviously going to come and go naturally. Lives change, interests change, muse disappears, people move on. That's normal.

But when someone still wants to write Star Wars RP, still enjoys their characters and their stories, yet decides they would rather do that somewhere other than Chaos, I think it's worth asking why.

More importantly, I think it's worth asking what might have made them stay.

So rather than arguing about whether there is or isn't a problem, I'd like to hear people's experiences and ideas:

  • What things currently make you want to keep writing here?
  • What things make you disengage, participate less, or consider leaving?
  • Are there reasonable changes that would make the site or community healthier to participate in?
  • What are we already doing well that we should make sure we don't lose?
  • If you could make one realistic change that might help retain writers, what would it be?
This isn't meant to relitigate individual staff decisions, call out particular members, or turn into another faction argument. I'd actually rather avoid naming people entirely.

I'm interested in practical things we can improve going forward.

Maybe the answer is communication. Maybe it's how we welcome new writers. Maybe it's faction culture, accessibility, events, conflict resolution, transparency, finding RP, or something none of us have considered yet.

I don't expect everyone to agree.

I'd just rather have the conversation while people still care enough about Chaos to have it.

I'm approaching this subject seriously and in good faith. Comments that undermine, trivialize, or make jokes at the expense of the discussion aren't welcome or appreciated here. I'd like to keep the conversation constructive and focused on the issue itself.

I want to be clear about why I'm raising this.

Lately, I've found the OOC side of the community increasingly exhausting to navigate. There are a lot of passive-aggressive remarks, little digs, jokes made at other people's expense, and conversations that seem to carry tension long after the original issue has passed.

For me, it has reached a point where that atmosphere sometimes makes me not want to write here at all.

What concerns me even more is seeing friends and other writers come away from interactions feeling unwelcome, uncomfortable, or as though their presence here isn't wanted. Whether that is anyone's intention or not, I think the effect is worth taking seriously.

I care about Chaos, and I want people to want to be here.

So my question is: what can we do, as writers and as a community, to make this a place where people feel comfortable staying, participating, and writing?
 
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I'm pretty sure there's a recent thread, but for reference if you haven't seen it: Dissolving the salt
I understand the announcement, and I agree with the concerns it raises about passive aggression, hostility, and the way OOC behavior can affect the community.

I know it encourages people who want to affect change to start a suggestion thread. I made this as a discussion first because I don't have all the answers, and I'd like people to help identify the problems and come up with constructive ideas together.
 
I'll bite.

  • What things currently make you want to keep writing here?
    • Mostly the community, the core group of writers I engage with.
  • What things make you disengage, participate less, or consider leaving?
    • Personal Attacks, trash-talking other factions, general salt
  • Are there reasonable changes that would make the site or community healthier to participate in?
    • Get rid of the map entirely; 99% of board posts are in private threads.
  • What are we already doing well that we should make sure we don't lose?
    • Telling great stories; this is what we are here for we should focus on that.
  • If you could make one realistic change that might help retain writers, what would it be?
    • This is a hard one, because retaining writers is a good goal. How do you quantify why people leave? There can be a myriad of reasons, and you can't account for them all.
 
What things currently make you want to keep writing here?

The homies and dope writers who sling mad words.

What things make you disengage, participate less, or consider leaving?

Historically, Destiny 2 expansions or IRL-prompted burnout.

Are there reasonable changes that would make the site or community healthier to participate in?

Delete the discussion/suggestion forum in favor of a suggestion box/ticket system that goes right to site staff

What are we already doing well that we should make sure we don't lose?

The freedom. Being able to write whatever, whenever, however when other sites have numerous arbitrary restrictions is a major selling point.

If you could make one realistic change that might help retain writers, what would it be?

Repeal the site admins can't be faction staff rule, because reasons.
 
  • What things currently make you want to keep writing here?
The friends we made along the way.
  • What things make you disengage, participate less, or consider leaving?
The enemies we made along the way.
  • Are there reasonable changes that would make the site or community healthier to participate in?
The enemies chilling out along the way.
  • What are we already doing well that we should make sure we don't lose?
The chill vibes we made along the way.
  • If you could make one realistic change that might help retain writers, what would it be?
The enemies chilled out along the way.
 
  • What things currently make you want to keep writing here?
The friends we made along the way.
  • What things make you disengage, participate less, or consider leaving?
The enemies we made along the way.
  • Are there reasonable changes that would make the site or community healthier to participate in?
The enemies chilling out along the way.
  • What are we already doing well that we should make sure we don't lose?
The chill vibes we made along the way.
  • If you could make one realistic change that might help retain writers, what would it be?
The enemies chilled out along the way.

Don't forget the baddies we made eye contact with along the way
 
  • What things currently make you want to keep writing here?
    • I'm sure it's some neurodivergent tick I've developed. Plus, it's the only consistently active SW RP out there.
  • What things make you disengage, participate less, or consider leaving?
    • When I get the Neurodivergence under control. Or when a new video game is released.
  • Are there reasonable changes that would make the site or community healthier to participate in?
    • Stop trying to change it. Do not try to understand it. Stop trying to analyze and process it. Go with the flow of things and experience it.
  • What are we already doing well that we should make sure we don't lose?
    • The fact that this place is still here. What we should make sure is that we don't change so much that we lose what brought us together in the first place.
  • If you could make one realistic change that might help retain writers, what would it be?
    • Read this very carefully, and if you take one thing seriously from its this. If you really want to be hated and make enemies around here. Try to change something. A lesson I did not learn.
 
Delete the discussion/suggestion forum in favor of a suggestion box/ticket system that goes right to site staff

I prefer pain, misery, salt, drama, hate, vitriol to have an outlet rather than bottled up. It's a part of our mantra. How many threads have we all been in where you're like "this is dumb, these people are talking out the sides of their mouths, there's a new internet label of the week that describes this exact behavior where people are being disingenuous and just blanket propaganda mogging to jester maxx."

It's cyclical. It's universal. It's everywhere you go on the internet, because it's human.

You jester maxx, then you die.

You frame mogg, then you die.

There's no solution that leads to bliss, no peaceful valley at the end of our ropes. You don't even want that. If you had it, ya'll would spin up a new suggestion thread about how boring everything is. It's okay to hate things, to be opinionated, to be passive aggressive. I catch a little bit of hatred literally every day during traffic.

Just so long as we know, one bad day dawg, you might catch some consequences. One bad day, Valiens might've caught a fender bender, gets home, tuna casserole lookin' cold and has a bad smell. One bad day might be the day you try that crappy joke or let that hate air out a lil bit 'cause the pressure buildin. OBD maxxer.
 

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