Natasi listened along as Dyrn explained his views on religion and faith, the Force and Force practitioners. She was religious herself, but she didn't like to think of herself as pushy or proselytizing. The Cosmic Balance really wasn't that way; it wasn't a faith that demanded obedience or withheld salvation. It simply posited the belief of how the galaxy worked and that was that. Its believers tried to behave in a way that would serve the capital-B Balance. Natasi's parents had been a mismatched set this way: her mother, a devoted Equilibriate, had been married to her father, an atheist, with no difficulty on that score for two decades.
Natasi, herself an Equilibriate, had been married to Talbot Vitalis, a member of some monotheistic religion or another. Their relationship had not been as loving, nor as long, as her parents', but it wasn't the difference in religion that was to blame.
"I quite agree with you," Natasi said quietly. "I have often wondered if it is possible to -- sever my connect to the Force. I've found it slightly uncomfortable, if I'm being perfectly frank. But the problem with that is that putting out those feelers will undoubtedly expose my predicament, and that I could not abide. At all."
The conversation continued, interrupted briefly by Ploughby's delivery of their desserts. Dyrn took her hand, lifted it to his lips. She blushed and grinned in an altogether giddy, toothy kind of way before looking down shyly. "Oh Dyrn," she murmured softly, looking up from behind her lashes, a note of mischief in her tone. "I'll give you a week to stop doing that." It was testament to Dyrn's charm and demeanor that Natasi was distracted from her sticky toffee pudding by his ministrations. It was not what one would call an easy feat. His breath felt hot on the soft skin of her hand, his lips surprisingly soft.
He drew his lips away from her hand and she watched with a touch of regret as he lowered it back down the table. Even still, just resting her hand with his was surprisingly intimate and even more surprisingly comfortable -- surprising for Natasi, who had always thought of herself as less than demonstrative and slow to display affection. There was something different about Dyrn Grav that had shifted Natasi's perspectives, apparently. She didn't
hate it.
"I'll never know where that sort of stereotype got started," Natasi said with an amusedly exasperated tone, in response to his quip about stormtrooper aim. "Sheev Palpatine didn't take over the galaxy and maintain an iron grip on it for three decades with slipshod troopers and poor aiming. And he didn't lose that grip because of poor aim, either." The Supreme Leader looked blankly across the table at her companion, then smiled self-consciously. "It's not a big deal, it's just -- interesting, I think."
Interesting. Irritating. Like the assumption that any government that put troopers in white armor and helmets were terrible, no-good, evil dictatorships hell-bent on world domination, and not simply using effective armor. "But at any rate, yes, I'd like to get some additional training in pistols, carbines, and rifles. It sounds like you'll be able to get me on the right track."
She suspected that Dyrn didn't mean to be funny with his commentary on his mother's eagerness for grandchildren, but nevertheless it brought a smile to her lips. "That's funny," Natasi said over an indulgent giggle. "It's funny that while there are many, many things that divide us as cultures, the drive for mothers to have grandchildren seems almost universal. Although, credits to croissants, there are probably just as many species in the galaxy where mothers eat their young. But let's not think about that."
Dyrn's reference to their desserts interrupted her consideration of his question about marriage and motherhood. She blinked herself back into the present and looked down at where he was indicated. "Oh -- of course," she said. "No, you just -- take the little jug," Natasi demonstrated by lifting the small metal pitcher, almost too warm to grab by the tiny handle and tipping it so that the molten toffee caramel sauce inside drizzled down liberally over the pudding. "And pour out the sauce. By the Balance, look how it soaks in? It's just this side of pornographic," she said on a giggle. "Now you mustn't tell anyone you saw me do this, but -- it's critical."
Natasi lifted her knife and slid it into the tiny pitcher, scraping the edges so that as much of the sauce came out as she could muster. "I can almost hear my grandmother telling me off, but trust me, it's worth it. Plus, she's been dead for years so she can't hurt us now." She set the knife and pitcher down, then picked up her spoon and dug into the dessert.
All this demonstration had given Natasi some time to consider Dyrn's questions and their broader implications. She had not admitted it to anyone before now, but the truth was that she wanted to marry again. Being Supreme Leader was a lonely job and it never stopped, not for a moment. Even now, in this pub, Natasi was all too aware of the responsibility she had for the lives and livelihoods of her subjects on the other side of the galaxy. It was always with her, this presence at the back of her mind. Those around her were always looking for her to do something or say something -- or do nothing or say nothing -- to signify approval or disapproval or favor or disfavor. A spouse -- a true partner, a friend as well as a lover -- would be a tremendous help simply by being there without angling for anything.
She took a bite of the dessert and made an appreciative noise -- she would rabidly deny that it was a
moan -- and chewed and swallowed. "By the Balance, that's good," said Natasi after dabbing her lips with her napkin. "But -- to circle back to your question -- the truth is I would like to be married again. My first marriage was not the most... well, let's say that it was a
qualified success. And while it may not have seemed conventionally happy -- Talbot and I were not besotted by one another, by any means -- it was nice to have a partner. I would like to experience that again, someday."
Her eyes flickered up to Dyrn's. "There is something quite liberating about it, in a way, to have a partner who will tell me how things really are and not what they think I want to hear, like so many courtiers do. Someone who will be frank and honest. It's -- it's rather a large task; as I've said before I'm not especially easy to live with in that context."
Natasi paused and seized her brandy, taking a sizeable chunk out of its contents in one gulp before setting it down. She hesitated before speaking further, certain that she already sounded deranged and that wherever she went with this conversation next, she wouldn't help her case. She took a shaky breath and went on: "So... yes. I would like to marry again. The problem with my sort of people is that we marry for life. Divorce is rather a four-letter word for my people. My aunt nearly detonated the family's social standing by divorcing. Perhaps she was brave, but she was also reckless, and I'm afraid I just don't have it in me to scandalize on that scale." She shrugged and absently swirled the remaining contents of the brandy in its glass; the dark amber liquid clung to the glass in a most satisfying way.
"And yes, I would like to have more children. At least another pair. It seems so cruel to have one all by its lonesome, a decade or more younger than its next sibling, without a playmate." She looked over at Dyrn, meeting his gaze once again. This time she didn't flinch. This was, perhaps, not the most conventional of first dates, but she supposed it made sense to discuss these items without a veil around them. She would hate to lead him on thinking one thing if the reality was something different. A future that he didn't want, with expectations he couldn't or didn't wish to meet. There was attraction there, to be sure, but it remained to be seen whether that would lead to anything more than a few kisses, some shared jokes, and longing gazes.
"I don't mean to put you on the spot," said Natasi slowly as she nudged her sticky toffee pudding with her spoon. "But I suppose it's important to know -- now, or sooner rather than later -- whether, if it came to it, whether that sort of life could be for you. Before we do anything...
rash," she murmured, flushing slightly. She could think of all sorts of things she
wanted to do, but which would be entirely improper to do with someone for whom a future together was not likely. "Life as a consort would have much different responsibilities to a life as Guard Captain. I'm not asking you for a commitment or anything so absurd; I'm really just wondering... what your thoughts are."
Natasi wondered if the cider and the brandy and the light-headed feelings of fresh romance were conspiring to rob her of her senses. She had rather let herself run away with things, and now she felt like she was perhaps out in the weeds. "Sorry if I'm..." Natasi sighed. "I'm not
trying to sound ridiculous, I promise."