Im going to *respectfully* ask that you edit that post because....

This is becoming such a blight on this site. If someone is breaking the terms of an invasion, quietly speak with one of your Faction Admins, to raise it with the other side. No one likes being told directly that they need to edit their post. If someone has misread your post, then sure in a friendly manner ask if they interpreted it as you expected. If not, it might just be easier to agree to carry on and work with what has occurred.
Even an invasion is collaborative roleplay. Demanding edits with a threat to report if none are made is a heinous crime. But when anyone asks for edits in a clearly passive-aggressive manner, the reaction is always going to be the same.