Personal Care and Hygiene
- Hygiene: Brush your hair daily. Bathe or shower regularly to keep clean. Ensure your Padawan braid is neatly kept.
- Dental Hygiene: Brush your teeth at least twice a day.
- Skin Care: Maintain a daily skin care routine, including washing your face in the morning and before bed. Use sunscreen when going outside to protect against UV rays.
- Nail Care: Keep nails trimmed and clean to avoid the spread of germs.
- Hand Hygiene: Wash your hands thoroughly with soap and water multiple times throughout the day, especially before eating, after using the restroom, and upon returning home.
- Hydration: Make it a habit to drink plenty of water throughout the day to stay hydrated.
- Sleep Hygiene: Maintain a regular sleep schedule by going to bed at 11 PM and waking up at 7 AM to promote better health and alertness. Curfew is at 8 PM Sharp.
Mealtime and Dietary Rules
- Dining Table Meals: Dinner is to be eaten at the dining table to foster unity and ensure proper mealtime etiquette. Breakfast, lunch, and snacks may be consumed in areas of your choice within the home.
- Pre-Dinner Restrictions: Avoid sweets or snacks one hour before dinner to maintain a healthy appetite for more nutritious meals.
- Dish Responsibility: Promptly clean your dishes after meals. This also includes tidying up any used dining areas to maintain a clean and welcoming environment.
- Nutritious Meals: Strive to eat at least two nutritious square meals per day, ensuring a balanced intake of various food groups.
- Vitamins and Supplements: Use vitamins and supplements as necessary to complement your diet and address any specific nutritional needs.
- Meal Preparation Participation: Get involved in meal preparation to better understand nutritional values and culinary skills.
- Mindful Eating: Practice eating without distractions such as electronic devices, focusing on the food and the act of eating to improve digestion and satisfaction.
- Food Safety: Adhere to food safety practices including proper food handling and storage to prevent illness.
- Respectful Mealtime Interaction: Maintain polite and respectful interactions during meals. This involves using manners, participating in conversations, and appreciating the meal prepared.
Emotional and Mental Well-being
- Self-Compassion and Support: Always be kind to yourself. Acknowledge that making mistakes is a part of learning and growth. It's always okay to seek help when needed.
- Emotional Honesty: Express your true emotions honestly and constructively. Avoid using manipulative tactics like fake crying. Strive to maintain authenticity in your emotional expressions to build trust and meaningful relationships.
- Respect for Privacy: Respect your own privacy and that of others. Maintaining these boundaries builds trust and a sense of security.
- Open Communication: Communicate openly and respectfully. Regularly share your thoughts and feelings with trusted individuals to foster a supportive environment.
- Understanding Restrictions: Respect and understand the reasons behind established rules and restrictions. If you are feeling frustrated, discuss your feelings respectfully with a caregiver to find constructive solutions.
- Mindfulness Practices: Practice mindfulness activities such as meditation or deep breathing to manage stress and enhance your emotional regulation.
- Setting Personal Boundaries: Emphasize the importance of setting and respecting personal boundaries to protect your mental well-being.
- Regular Emotional Check-ins: Schedule regular check-ins with a caregiver or mentor to discuss your emotional state and any challenges you face, ensuring ongoing support.
- Healthy Emotional Expression: Encourage expressing a range of emotions in a healthy and appropriate way. Recognize the value of being open about your feelings.
- Gratitude Practice: Implement a daily or weekly gratitude practice. Noting things you are grateful for can significantly improve your mood and outlook on life.
Behavioral Expectations
Communication and Interaction:
- No shouting inside the house.
- Resolve disagreements peacefully; inform an adult if someone is unkind.
- Avoid using foul language or inappropriate words.
- Don't pretend to cry when you're not genuinely upset.
- Always be polite and use good manners when interacting with others.
- Clearly communicate your needs and wants to your caregiver.
- Feel free to express yourself without feeling embarrassed.
- Be a good listener and give others the opportunity to express themselves.
Effort and Self-Improvement:
- Put in your best effort in everything you do.
- Be kind to yourself and understand that it's okay to make mistakes.
- Don't hesitate to ask for help when you need it.
- Take responsibility for your actions and apologize when necessary.
- Practice honesty and truthfulness in all your interactions.
Respect and Diversity:
- Treat everyone, including family members, guests, and pets, with kindness and respect.
- Respect others' privacy and boundaries; do not open locked or closed doors without permission.
- Show gratitude and appreciation for the help and kindness of others.
- Practice patience and tolerance, especially in challenging situations.
- Respect diversity and treat everyone with fairness and equality.
- Take care of your personal belongings and the shared spaces in the house.
Emotional Regulation and Self-Control:
- Demonstrate self-control and manage your emotions appropriately.
Manners and Courtesy:
- Practice good manners, including saying "please," "thank you," and "excuse me."
Safety Rules
Fire Safety:
- No playing with fire, matches, the stove, the fireplace, or fireworks.
- Do not light people on fire, even when playing pretend.
Indoor Play Safety:
- No climbing, running, or jumping indoors.
- No throwing things.
Use of Objects:
- No playing with knives or sharp objects.
- No breaking things.
- No drawing on the wall or defacing anything.
Animal Safety:
- Do not pet strange animals.
Electrical Safety:
- Do not play with electrical outlets or cords.
- Do not touch electrical appliances with wet hands.
- Report any damaged electrical cords or outlets to an adult.
Water Safety:
- Do not swim without adult supervision.
Personal Safety:
- Always wear a helmet when riding a bike, scooter, or skateboard.
- Look both ways before crossing the street.
- Do not talk to strangers or accept gifts from them.
Food Safety:
- Wash your hands before and after eating.
- Report any allergies to adults.
Emergency Preparedness:
- Know your home address and phone number.
- Know how to dial emergency services.
- Have an emergency plan in case of fire, earthquake, or other emergencies.
Property and Privacy
- Locks doors and closed doors must remain that way.
- If a door is locked, respect that it is locked for a reason. Do not attempt to open it or circumvent the lock.
- Respect personal belongings and boundaries. Always ask for permission before using someone else's property.
- No spitting on people.
- No slamming doors.
- Respect for Property: Do not use anyone else's property without permission. This includes not using parents' computers without consent.
- Vehicle Use: Do not borrow any cars or vehicles without asking an adult first.
Responsibilities and Permissions
Academic and Extracurricular Activities
- Homework must be completed before playtime directly after school.
- No extracurricular or sport
activities until homework and study time is complete. All weekly chores must be finished before dinner on Fridays.
- No going places without asking an adult first.
- You must be home at least half an hour before curfew.
- No girlfriends, boyfriends or romantic partners without asking caretakers first.
- No borrowing any cars or vehicles without asking an adult first.
- No using the adult's computers.
Personal Development
- Journaling: Keep a daily journal to reflect on your thoughts and track your progress.
- Preparation: Plan your outfit the night before to streamline your morning routine.
- Creativity: Dedicate time to work on a DIY or craft project regularly.
- Scheduling: Create a weekly calendar to manage your time and activities efficiently.
- Guided Activities: Engage in playtime or leisure activities only with approval from your caregiver.
Accountability and Routine
- You must stay on our property unless you get an adult.
- Open and Respectful Communication: Always be open and honest while maintaining respect, even if the answer may be disappointing.
- Sleep Schedule: Lights out by 11 PM every night unless otherwise agreed.
- Morning Routine: Wake up at a reasonable hour every morning.
- Daily Greetings: Say good night and good morning each day.
- Healthy Living: Eat at least two nutritious square meals per day, use vitamins or supplements as needed, and exercise regularly.
- Substance Use: No smoking, drugs, or drinking alcohol without explicit permission.
- Curfews and Permissions: You must be home at least half an hour before the curfew. No going places without asking an adult first. This includes having no guests over without prior notification.
Rewards and Consequences
- Sticker Chart: Use a sticker chart as a visual tracker of your achievements and behaviors.
- Rewards: Earn rewards such as a new stuffie, candy, a beauty item, or something for your little space.
- Extra Leisure Time: Gain extra playtime, or the chance to watch a movie or hear a story as a reward.
- Flexible Bedtime: Achieve an extended bedtime as a reward for consistent good behavior.
- Consequences for Rule Violation: May include temporary removal of privileges, belongings, extra chores, writing the broken rule repeatedly, and grounding.
Communication and Conflict Resolution
- Ultimate Authority: Jedi Master Tirin and Knight Valin have the final say in all matters. Their word is law, and rules can be adjusted by them as needed.
- Inquiry and Compliance: If unsure whether an action is permissible, ask Jedi Master Tirin or Knight Valin for clarification.
- Adherence to Grounding: If you are grounded, respect and comply with the restrictions set during this period.
- Open and Respectful Communication: Be open and honest while maintaining respect.
- Honesty: No lying. Always tell the truth.
Lightsaber Rules:
- Authorized Use Only: Only those trained and authorized may wield a lightsaber.
- Maintenance and Care: Regularly maintain your lightsaber, ensuring it is in optimal condition for use.
- Holstered When Not in Use: Always keep your lightsaber holstered when not in use to prevent accidents.
- Use in Training: Use your lightsaber in designated training areas or when instructed by a master.
- Non-Aggression Principle: A lightsaber should be used for defense and never for unprovoked aggression.
- Discretion in Public: Exercise discretion when using a lightsaber in public to avoid causing alarm or misunderstanding.
- Respect the Weapon: Treat your lightsaber as a sacred tool of a Jedi, not as a common weapon.
- Meditation and Focus: Incorporate regular meditation sessions to enhance focus and connection with the lightsaber, promoting a deeper understanding of its significance and capabilities.
- Form Training: Dedicate time to practicing different lightsaber forms under the guidance of a master, honing combat skills and adapting to various combat scenarios.
- Emergency Situations: Establish protocols for using the lightsaber in emergency situations, such as defense against aggressive adversaries or during rescue missions, emphasizing the importance of remaining calm and composed.
Weapons Cache Rules:
- Secure Storage: All weapons must be stored securely and safely to prevent unauthorized access.
- Inventory Checks: Regularly perform inventory checks to ensure all items are accounted for and in good condition.
- Access Control: Limit access to the weapons cache to authorized personnel only.
- Clean and Maintain: Regularly clean and maintain weapons to ensure they are battle-ready at all times.
- Usage Logging: Log all weapon usage, noting who took what weapon and for what purpose.
- Compliance with Regulations: Ensure all weapon use and storage complies with local and intergalactic regulations.
- Security Protocols: Implement additional security measures such as biometric scanners or encryption codes to prevent unauthorized access to the weapons cache.
- Emergency Preparedness: Develop contingency plans for potential breaches of security or unexpected threats, ensuring quick and effective responses to safeguard the arsenal.
- Training Programs: Offer training programs for Padawans and other Jedi initiates on proper weapon handling and safety procedures, promoting responsible use and respect for all types of weaponry.
Special Permissions
- Relationships: Discuss any potential romantic relationships with parents first.
Forgiveness and Learning
- Mistakes happen. We are only people, and there will be times when we make mistakes. We are to communicate, listen, learn, forgive, and move on together.
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