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Question How should I incorporate transsexuality into my character(s)?

Joy

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Ubiquitously a character is usually referred to by pronouns indicating that they are male, or female, when writing a character in Star Wars, or other mediums, whether they be professional, or in a casual setting, such as roleplay. These same demonyms are usually even applied to character's who are either humanoid, cybernetic or alien in-character. As a trans woman myself I go by pronouns indicating that I am female OOC, and given that I roleplay characters that are usually female, I write them in a way that they are taken and interacted with as women. Everyone has been lovely in this regard despite the fact that a lot of you knew me (from back in the 2010s) when I was known as a male. I haven't ever had a problem with writing female characters, or presenting myself as one OOC, with other writers on this board in all my time here and I suspect that will continue given how Chaos is moderated to prevent bigotry from taking place.

However, I am not a CIS woman. I am a trans woman and I am left to wonder how I can roleplay a character (who is trans) without breaking the site's general rules.

Although this is not applicable to everyone who writes on this board it is my feeling, particularly when it comes to how I write, that I like to apply parts of myself and into my characters as a way to explore things that I cannot do in other mediums. Roleplay is a form of escapism that allows me to perform characters that are often bad or villainous in nature which is something that I aspire not to be outside of creative writing. This is how I have dealt with both the good and bad since I started roleplaying (then later creatively writing) since I was a child. I find that it still works today even now as an adult. Of course, transsexuality is not a villainous thing. I am simply giving you an example of what I predominantly have roleplayed, particularly, since I joined this board in 2013 and how it has helped me work through the darker parts of myself to, hopefully, tell you all about an interesting character or two. Not Vilox though. That guy sucked.

For example, Rule 8. prohibits me from bringing up IRL social discussions on the board. Does roleplaying a transsexual (male-to-female) violate this rule?

This thread isn't about starting a debate about identity politics as this would violate that same rule. I intend to respect that rule as I think bringing up identity politics would be a catastrophic thing for this community and ought to be avoided. Nevertheless transsexuality is a subject which invites intense scrutiny as, when applied to a medium like roleplay, it can be interpreted in different ways as it is irl. It brings up other questions.

If I were to describe my character, presenting as a female, suddenly delving into a deep, masculine voice (which can happen), would I be breaking the site's rules by causing offense to other trans women in the community, or those who support them?

Does my aforementioned question pose the risk of bringing up negative stereotypes about trans women?

The obvious solution to this alleged problem would be to continue writing characters as if they were CIS which is the usual interpretation of female characters on this website. It is a well known thing for people who are male OOC to write female characters IC and nobody frowns on this as it is just roleplay. But what if I want my character to not be identified as CIS? What if I want my character to be identified as trans in roleplay? How can I explore the medium of transsexuality in roleplay when it is so easy to cause offence despite not meaning to?

Since I began writing on this website I have seen other writers explore gender and romance as it becomes applicable to homosexuality. These tales have been endearing and have helped to show people, both playing these characters and others reading these stories, that whether you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or something else, that they are just another aspect of the Human condition of which science fiction, like Star Wars, can help us learn more about ourselves. Yet, I haven't seen attempts to explore transsexuality in the same way. Are people too afraid to do this? Is it something the website isn't ready for?

As the writer base on this board have grown up from teenagers and young adults, and into the later stages of adulthood, we have seen a lot of difficult material tackled and told well on Chaos. War stories about characters who have gone through the trenches. Characters who have experienced betrayal, loss and how they dealt with them in good or bad ways. The ends of worlds and their civilisations. Some have crossed that ubiquitous line that is there to stop people from going too far with these types of stories. So what is the ever present line as it comes to a trans character?

How would I write the character of Her as a trans woman? Does it matter?
 
You're overthinking tf outta this.

Rule 8 is about OOC discussion/debate of real-life topics, not “you can’t write an LGBTQ+ character.”

Tef (and Chaos as a whole) publicly supports the LGBTQ+ community - there's not going to be a rule on the books that outlaws portraying a part of that community.

Just write Her as a good character, don’t turn her identity into a gimmick or debate thread, and you’ll be fine.
 

Joy

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I am aware that Tef, the Chaos community, and you support the LGBTQ+ community. That there are no rules portraying a character who identifies as gay, trans, lesbian, some alien-- the galaxies your oyster. Play what you want. Just play by the rules. What if I write something which I, as a trans woman, find to be okay, but another girl finds offensive?

The expectation by trans women is for other people, regardless of their orientation or background, to treat us like CIS women. Yet, this is not the trans experience. Some of us have facial hair we cannot stop growing, or our voices are masculine, or we have masculine body types. Can I roleplay these things without turning them into a caricature by accident? Are making jokes allowed? Is there a way to explore stereotypes without crossing the ubiquitous line of not making it offensive?

I will give you an example that is applicable to Star Wars. You roleplay a Mandalorian. Your religion is about weapons, honour and fighting. You're a warrior people. How many times have you interacting with other characters and you have been objectified for your beliefs? Isn't it normal for someone to encounter a Mandalorian and feel threatened? Intimidated immediately? The line here is convoluted because, in Star Wars, these are the expectations of Mandalorians. 9/10 you're gonna fight one in roleplay.

Conversely how does someone roleplay the traits and attributes that most trans women experience?
 
What if I write something which I, as a trans woman, find to be okay, but another girl finds offensive?

Ideally, a conversation between you and the offended party will occur - because we're all (mostly) adults here. And then, if an understanding can't be reached, the age-old wisdom applies: if they don't like it, they can report it.

For the rest of your thoughts, it really boils down to "write a good character and stop overthinking, you'll be fine."
 
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Kitter Bitters

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If someone is offended, they should always take it slow and talk to the writers involved. The same goes in this case. Just be open and talk to people. It's the same as any thread. If I write something with one of my characters and it offends someone else I would hope they would approach me calmly and explain things to me so we can come to a resolution.

As long as you approach roleplay as a fun hobby and are open to talking to people I don't see where this could be an issue.

I hope that helps

Edit: I also think your experience as a trans person might be different than others and thats okay. If you write one experience and someone else doesn't agree with it they don't have to. Not every Jedi on here is the same and a lot of people disagree with how others write their own Jedi but as long as we are all adults and try to get along it should be fine.
 
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I get the hesitance, I really do. My first character on Chaos was originally planned to be trans, but I scrapped that aspect before making her as I didn't think that I (as a cis male) could tell that story. Just my two cents, but I think as long as you tell the story in a realistic and respectful manner, you'll be more than fine.

There real key here is to give yourself some grace. As with any story, there will be stumbles. People will have opinions, but that's to be expected. Just do your best, and I'm sure you'll be fine! You're a smart writer, and you make good stuff. I'm sure Her's story will be just fine!
 
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DeadpoolMLP

Too many characters, I have
I think my answer would be:

What is the story I'm trying to tell with that aspect of the character?

I know I often start with a gimmick for a character to start off, and branch from there. Sexuality of any kind can be a great starting point, if that's a major aspect of their story, but it can't be the only part. Characters need depth outside of their one gimmick. You don't want it to be that, a gimmick.

I think if you want that to be a major aspect, make it a visible part of the character. Both visually, but also in how they act, how they interact. Maybe they still feel a bit uncomfortable in their own, new gender. Maybe they haven't fully transitioned yet. Maybe they're still in denial, or something along those lines.

I'll admit, I'm not trans. I don't know the full experience, but I have plenty of friends who I've seen go through that who have told me plenty about the process and life experience. Writing characters is hard when you don't know the full story, but it's a skill in doing so.

I think there's plenty of ways to do it, but you'd have to commit to one. Come up with a story you want to tell, then figure out how to fit the trans experience into that.
 

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