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To Doxx A Forum Owner

Sup ya'll.

Well, this past year we famously said "yeah, let's stop putting stuff behind closed doors, let's air it all out." I didn't actually say that originally, it was a banned member who gave me the idea as he REEE'd, and I agreed. It's been rather cathartic, talking about this stuff openly, letting the community weigh in with their opinions. We get hit with some criticism, sure, we get some anger, some resentment, some disagreeance, but we usually feel like a weight is lifted after we talk it out. I think we had a record number of MFO voice calls, a record number of Staff voice calls? And it's this, I think, that has put Chaos back in the positive mindset and got us all on the right track towards the future of Chaos. These conversations.

Still, there will always be those on the fringe who just can't move on or let others be happy, leading to those drama blogs ya'll like to eat up.

This is one of them.


Oh no, I've been doxxed.

And it's confirmed a writer named Aycin wrote it. I hardly know her, she got banned for some whack stuff a ways back, but boy does she know me apparently. Apparently we got some screws loose. And try to deny it all you want, but most of this community knows I don't throw down until I've got ze proof, honey boo bear.

Yep, that's me. Sensational. Look, it's a very serious thing, already illegal in some states, and I don't want any member of this community to treat it lightly. We have rules on this forum for that behavior. You can even go so far to say that me even addressing the issue is problematic, because it is, I'm giving this person a platform they otherwise wouldn't have and further invite more people like her to follow up this insanity. But I literally cannot help myself, I have my flaws. I can't help but to point out that of all the pictures they could've chosen to follow up the "racially insensitive StarWarsRP.net owner", they chose to post a picture of me in front of the new Martin Luther King Jr. statue from years back. The irony is face-slapping, and if intended, it's like a 6G head strat. I don't know what they intended with the strat, but it's gonna be revealed any day now I'm sure.

I'm not going to get into the claims, or defend myself, or even pretend this is a normal conversation beyond what most of us would pepelaugh or cringelul at. But... you literally sat there and seriously wrote this up, like, your thinking led to this. You've got screws loose, Aycin. I wasn't intimidated before, I'm not now, I'm not going to be, you just need to get help. Plenty of us need it around this time of year. It's a great time of year, to take stock in what is serious, what is tangible, what is healthy, what is not. It's a great time of year to put that shackled misery aside and move on, because that next year is coming.

The same applies to the Discords personally giving this Aycin character a safe space to hide, including you, Star Wars: Odyssey. Yeah, I know all about it. I don't really care for most of it, I've never lifted a finger after we got done with that whole poaching debacle you guys had at the beginning, and some of ya'll got unbanned along the way. We've all got better things to do than pretend the beef goes equally both ways. And I'm perfectly okay with continuing like that, you do you. But now you're supporting this behavior. You're fostering it. If you don't talk to your people, no matter how small or big a community you're trying to foster, this is what becomes of it when the doors shut. The losers get louder and the bold keep leaving. And what happens when you've rid yourselves of this turbulent priest, what happens when I'm inevitably gone, huh. Just going to wait around until you piss Aycin/others off, and now you're doxxed too? Grow a spine, guys. Seriously. You want to be leaders, step up and set the goddamn example.

...You can grow a community while having a moral compass.

Anyways.

If you caught bad vibes from this, apologies. I literally have a team of Star Wars fan advisors breathing down my neck not to do shit like this, I just sometimes can't stop myself. Just.. go eat some ham, enjoy your family, friends. Be safe. We're likely to be steamrolling Chaos with good vibes once the holidays are over as all the new features/changes begin rolling in.

If you're here to write and for good vibes, we got you.

If you're here to doxx, I'll personally ban you into oblivion until you start calling me a totalitarian on some half-assed wiki page.

Credit where credit's due, at least you targeted the right Admin this time.
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That this Aycin person is willing to stoop this low over a forum RP suggests they need to seriously reconsider their priorities in life. Disgraceful.
 
StarWarsRP.NET, currently referred to as Star Wars: Chaos, is a racially insensitive, bigoted, and disturbing...

I'd love to see some actual evidence of that. Really. If she's going to make accusations like that she better have the proof to back it up. Which A.) I don't think she does, and B.) she sounds out of her head.

I've never seen any evidence of this. Or in cases where people are being racially insensitive asshats, they get the ban hammer pretty fast around here. I dunno of any bigots either. Disturbing? Joker was disturbing to some people. That's an opinion. I'd love to know what's disturbing to her.

As far as I'm concerned, she done goofed and played herself. My experiences here have been 98% positive, and the staff has been upright and outstanding all around. You guys rock, and even in my short tenure among the staff was a pretty great experience.
 
What was that you were saying the other day about "Haters are how you know you've made it"?

Guess you've made it!
 
You know they’re over there high fiving and chuckling while repeating “gottem” to each other as the froth drips from their mouths.


This is stupid. Why do you care so much about Tefka. Dudes living rent free in your freaking heads and laughing about it. Go be on your own site and just drop it who cares.
 
I have seen board splits a plenty. I have seen people get bashed and flamed. I have see valid criticism and pointless bickering.

Yet after all I have seen I think the lowest of low are those that go out of their way to attack people in there offline life. I get being angry in the moment lashing out saying stupid shit but at the end of the day it's a cooperative story driven site you prove nothing by attacking people's life outside beside the fact you yourself are a douche.

I'm not saying Chaos is perfect but those whom scream racist, bigot, and what ever else the loudest are often those things themselves they need to project it on others in order to deal with the real issue. From all I have seen Chaos staff deals with such matters as quickly as they can.

To lighten the mood a little bit they did ruin the image I had in my head of Tefka. All this time I thought he was a my five hundred pound life kid who loves Asian and weeb culture so went to Japan on vacation and just never left.

Nothing ever lives up to your expectations I guess.
 
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Being honest, if I ever get mad at someone, I will air it out in private and then be done with it. The difference here is a person that not only needs help, but decided the best way to get back at someone was to dig into their real life over a simple matter of roleplay. At that point, go outside, find a therapist or if on the cheap side, a bar and talk to people. If not a bar, go talk to people at a warhammer/roleplay shop and air it out. Heck, can't even get out of your own house? There is now plenty of websites that offer therapy services and while I am unsure to mention here, it can help. Air out what you feel is wrong or frustrated about, don't escalate this to where it only gets bad for yourself involved.
 
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Samnai Rouber Samnai Rouber no, because the only instances of it happening are people like the person who made this wiki page being banned.
 
Aycin and everyone else they've associated with need to stay off the internet and go see a therapist before they get to a point where they end up hurting themselves or, more importantly, other people.
 
Samnai Rouber Samnai Rouber no, because the only instances of it happening are people like the person who made this wiki page being banned.
Well that's ironic-

But the fact they could even dig up information about the Admin is frightening, and a picture on top of that. I don't even know Tefka, but even if they did say terrible, awful things doxxing is never excusable.

Unfortunately doxxing is becoming more and more common these days in fandoms, partly due to technology. You should definitely watch out for this person, I am in a fandom that's filled with constant drama and I can tell you they won't stop at this and may share your information. Please be safe.
 
Ya'll need to get in line behind me, I've been asking for evidence for years. People keep saying they got it but it never shows up man cmon
 
It looks like the content's been removed if I'm not mistaken. Possibly late coming to this due to timezones and such but from what I've read above, this is going above and beyond. You've really got yourself a fan, living in their heart rent-free for god knows how long it took them to stoop this low.

People may not always agree with your decisions, but that's a normal part of being human. Honestly, there have been behaviours and decisions that I've disagreed with, by numerous people. That life, that's us. Social beings...

But this person clearly hasn't been able to rise above their disagreements or hate, to act rationally and maturely. In this sense, it's a good thing they were removed from the community before their true colours could do any further damage than what's already been done.

Tefka Tefka , I'm sorry you were targeted like this. People have their differences, no one's always going to be right or wrong, but this kind of behaviour isn't what I believe you deserve or earned upon yourself at all. I'm glad your someone who knows this and can move on from it yourself. Just wanted to convey my respects.
 
Jeez, this person. Well, I'm personally not reading the article. I don't need to know anything about Tefka other than his name is Tefka and he's a pretty dang cool staff member. Don't need to see a face or a real name. I'm suppressing the memory of reading the name. Let's make sure we all know this person needs help, learn from this, and just move on.
 
Every time something like this happens, I think to myself who are these people that any of this is so important to them? and they I realize, it doesn't matter who they are. What matters is what they are. And what they are is sad and pathetic. Seriously, they need to get some help because this crap is psychotic.
 

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