We're no longer together or living together, yet he's still snooping on Chaos. How do I know this? Because some of what I've written in my blogs he has quoted. How wonderful is that?
I know that my blogs are helping others and in turn I'm getting more support and advice through various ways, so I won't be stopping them.
I am still working through things with my daughter to try to ease her fears when things start to change, yet it's heartbreaking when she's still scared and worried. With the councilling and therapy I'm taking part in, it's really eye opening and validating. With him continuing to snoop, monitor and record nearly everything we do, it really goes to show how obsessive he is. Even when we are not under his control!
Chaos will never be the same place of sanctuary for me ever again. But my friends here are what offer me the support and they are what keep me coming back. As many have said, "don't let him take away what you enjoy. Don't give him that power." And I won't! I'm still here and brave enough to write knowing fully well that he's watching my every move.
Perhaps one of these days he'll learn to let go.
I know that my blogs are helping others and in turn I'm getting more support and advice through various ways, so I won't be stopping them.
I am still working through things with my daughter to try to ease her fears when things start to change, yet it's heartbreaking when she's still scared and worried. With the councilling and therapy I'm taking part in, it's really eye opening and validating. With him continuing to snoop, monitor and record nearly everything we do, it really goes to show how obsessive he is. Even when we are not under his control!
Chaos will never be the same place of sanctuary for me ever again. But my friends here are what offer me the support and they are what keep me coming back. As many have said, "don't let him take away what you enjoy. Don't give him that power." And I won't! I'm still here and brave enough to write knowing fully well that he's watching my every move.
Perhaps one of these days he'll learn to let go.
